| Location | Barnsley |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 01/10/2008 |
| Date of Death | 29/09/2008 |
| Visitors | 2,525 since 08/10/2008 |
| Creator |
Alfie you were born sleeping. You looked so perfect when they showed you to me and your daddy.
Although we had to give you a lifetime of love in such a short space of time we will always love you
and be thinking of you everyday.
We will always be thinking of the things that you would be doing. The mischief you and your big
brother would have got up to.
Everyone was so excited about meeting you and they are all so sad that you were taken away from us
before we had the opportunity to get to know you.
You will be in our hearts all the time.
Sleep tight my baby angel.
Love you
Lots of love, hugs and kisses from
Mummy, Daddy and big brother Oscar
Thank you to everyone who has written lovely tributes and for all the candles you light. It means so
much to us.
Sorry that I have not lit many candles recently for your angels. I have been having a tough time. I
will try to light more candles from now on for your angels.
ALFIE
A place in heaven is set for you,
precious baby boy.
Although we're sad we lost you,
Your birth still brought much joy.
Lying there so peacefully,
so perfect and so new.
We all wished that we could have spent
so much more time with you.
For every day that passes,
we will think what might have been.
Of what you might have looked like
and the things you might have seen
If loving could have saved you,
you never should have died.
because we have so much to give,
each one of us inside.
Every day we'll think of you
and the love we had to share
and we know that you will hear us,
when we talk to you in prayer.
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My Mum is a survivor,
Or so I've heard it said.
But I can hear her crying at night,
When all others are in bed.
I watch her lay awake at night,
And go to hold her hand.
She doesn't know I'm with her,
To help her understand.
But like the sands on the beach,
That never wash away...
I watch over my surviving mum,
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In a baby castle, just beyond my eye,
My baby plays with angel toys, that money cannot buy
Who am i to wish him back to this our world of strife
No, play on my baby you have eternal life
At night when all is silent, and sleep forsakes my eyes
I'll hear his tiny footsteps, come rushing to my side
His little hands caress me, so tenderly and sweet
I'll breath a prayer and embrace him in my sleep
Now i have a treasure, that i rate above all others
I have known true glory, i am still his MOTHER XX
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PLEASE, don't ask me if I'm over it yet.
I'll never be over it.
PLEASE, don't tell me he's in a better place.
he isn't here with me.
PLEASE, don't say at least he isn't suffering.
I haven't come to terms with why he had to suffer at all.
PLEASE, don't tell me you know how I feel,
unless you have lost a child.
PLEASE, don't ask me if I feel better.
Bereavement isn't a condition that clears up.
PLEASE, don't tell me at least you had him for a little while.
When would you choose for your child to die?
PLEASE, don't tell me God never gives us more than we can bear.
PLEASE, just say you're sorry.
PLEASE, just say you remember my child, if you do.
PLEASE, just let me talk about my child.
PLEASE, mention my child's name.
PLEASE, just let me cry.
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A Child that loses a parent is an orphan,
A Man who loses his wife is a widower,
A Woman who loses her husband is a widow,
However, there is no name for a parent that loses a child,
For there is no word to describe such pain
Special Angel Day - by Carmelle Gross
We do not need a special day
To bring you to our minds.
The days we do not think of you
Are very hard to find.
Each morning when we awake
We know that you are gone.
And no one knows the heartache
As we try to carry on.
Our hearts still ache with sadness
And secret tears still flow.
What it meant to lose you
No one will ever know.
Our thoughts are always with you,
Your place no one can fill.
In life we loved you dearly;
In death we love you still.
There will always be a heartache,
And often a silent tear.
But always a precious memory
Of the days when you were here.
If tears would make a staircase,
And heartaches make a lane,
We'd walk the path to heaven
And bring you home again.
We hold you close within our hearts;
And there you will remain,
To walk with us throughout our lives
Until we meet again.
Our family chain is broken now,
And nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.
Nine Long Months - by Ingrid Aspey
I carried you for nine long months,
Looking forward to your birth.
Little did I ever know,
You'd never breath on earth.
I'd made such plans for your life,
Looking forward to bringing you home.
I never though for one second,
When I came home I’d be alone.
They said there been some complications,
They said that you had gone.
I couldn't understand their words,
What had happened? What had gone wrong?
Now they don’t want to talk of you,
The people who drop by.
They think that I should just accept,
My baby's in the sky.
I’ll keep a part of you with me,
And everywhere I am, you’ll be.
I know we’ll meet again some day,
Then in my arms you'll always stay.
Every day I’ll think of you,
Think of you with love.
My precious little baby,
My Angel up above.
Copyright© Ingrid Aspey 2009
Sweet little man
Almost a year has passed since you were cruelly taken from us.
Not 1 day of that has passed without you being in our thoughts.
We thought that you had sent us a present from heaven above in the form of a baby brother or sister to love and cuddle. Not to replace you no one could ever do that. Just for us to love. You must have wanted them more as they were too taken into heaven.
Look after your brother or sister (we did not know what "Jelly Tot" would have been.
Mummy loves you both and misses you ever single day.
love Mummy xx
To my special little man
11 months have almost passed since you were so cruelly taken from us.
Not 1 day goes by when mummy and everyone does not think about you.
Watch over mummy won't you keep her nice and safe. Daddy and Oscar and everyone else too.
Sorry I haven't visited this site for a while.
love you lots
love mummyxxxx
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My darling little Alfie.
Mummy hopes you like your new flowers darling. Mummy chose them as they were very brightly coloured.
Your beautiful big brother made mummy cry last night. When we went for a walk to see the fishes he asked to come and see you as he wanted to say "night night" to you. I hope you heard him. Mummy told him that you were making your windmill spin round as you knew he had come to see you again.
He talks about you lots and we tell him about you all the time. He will always know he has a very special angel looking after him.
Well darling mummy hopes you have had a fun filled day in paradise playing with all your beautiful friends. Hope you are playing nicely together.
And that you are being a good boy for Great Grandma Booth, Great Nana and Grandad Hey, Uncle Lee and Great Grandad Sullivan.
I am sure they are loving you and teaching you how to be a good angel.
Love you and miss you so so much little man.
Lots of love Mummy.
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9 months ago.
Sweet darling little man.
Mummy cannot believe that 9 months has passed since you were born sleeping and our world fell apart.
Miss you more and more each day.
I know you are with us all each and every day, creating mischief with your big brother Oscar.
Hope you like your new flowers and bear. Mummy found some lovely sunflowers for you. Mummy and Daddy will get some more fencing and make your garden all nice for you.
Sleep tight beautiful boy.
Love mummy, daddy and Oscar xxx
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